Sex, Gender & Relationships

This section contains articles that use the Key Principles to reveal the deeper/non-Darwinian (meta-physical - "quantum/psycho/social/spiritual") causes of sexuality and gender differences, together with useful insights into relationships.

Topics that are, or will be covered, include:

  • Why men and male animals tend more to be the competitive warriors
  • Why women tend to live longer
  • The reasons for the sexual double standard
  • The origin of the virginal Madonna and the 'damned whore' dichotomy
  • Why women have tended to marry up, men down
  • Why men prefer to partner beauty and youth; women prefer to partner money, power and status
  • Why traditionally women couldn't read maps', and men wouldn't listen
  • The reasons for the preponderance of male warriors, murderers, scientists, autistics
  • The reasons for paedophilia and pornography
  • The (non-Darwinian) reasons for polygamy
  • Why men have traditionally preferred virgins

Applying Key Principles

  1. Moving beyond limiting and pernicious Darwinian 'natural selection' theories
  2. The power of complementary masculine and feminine energies
  3. Key principles for relationships

The Complementarity of Consciousness

[Reprint of 1991 paper by Robert G. Jahn, Emeritus Professor, Princeton University]

The concept of complementarity, originally proposed by Bohr in a microphysical context, and subsequently extended by himself, Heisenberg and Pauli to encompass subjective as well as objective dimensions of human experience, can be further expanded to apply to many common attitudes of human consciousness. At issue is the replacement of strict polar opposition of superficially antithetical consciousness capacities, such as analysis and synthesis, logic and intuition, or doing and being, by more generous conjugation that allows pairs to operate in constructive triangulation and harmony. In this format the physical principle of uncertainty also acquires metaphoric relevance in limiting the attainable sharpness of specifications of any consciousness complements, and may serve to define their optimum balance in establishing reality. These principles thus lend themselves to representation of wave-like vs. particle-like operations of consciousness; to trade-offs between rigor and ambience in consciousness research; to generic masculine/feminine reinforcement; and to the interplay of science and spirit in any creative enterprise.

 

* Revised version of a presentation to the L.E. Rhine Centenary Conference, “Cultivating Consciousness for Enhancing Human Potential, Wellness, and Healing,” November 8-10, 1991

Belief-System Tune-Ups

Many people easily forget how muich they rely on mental-maps (belief-systems) to navigate through life.

What we believe defines, shapes and creates us. What we believe possible will reveal itself by what we attempt to achieve.

Belief-system tuneups are designed to reveal the deeper, more congruent frameworks of life -- those that you can rely on, irrespective of time and circumstance.

Belief-System Tune-Ups can be tailored for the industry, circumstances and needs of clients.

The quantum physics of sex

One of the fun things about intuiting insights is testing those insights against the observations and experiences of everyday life.

Following an intuitive insight late in 1996 - glimpsing the rudiments of the Table of One and All - I wrote a book centred around it.

Men, women, competition and cooperation

Why men tend more to compete and women tend more to cooperate

According to research conducted by Dr. Joanne Winter at Melbourne’s Monash University

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Key Principle of Life, for Life No. 2

Key Principle of Life, for Life No. 2 affirms that due to the inherent limitations of reasoning and the scientific method, there will remain a fullness (wholeness) to life that will not be entirely comprehended through rational thinking or be fully revealed by scientific inquiry.

The world around us exists with us, at-once. No science* or system of thought or philosophy can fully reveal or account for this "at-once" (nonlocal) nature of life.

In view of the inability to fully reveal this at-once nature, KPLL No. 2 requires that there will remain aspects of, and potentials within, everyday experience that cannot be entirely reduced to any knowable order (science, equation, academic discipline, physiology, profession, body of experience etc).

Recognising the at-once nature of parts and wholes (of individuals and communities) produces our second Key Principle of Life, for Life (KPLL No. 2):

Key Principle of Life, For Life No. 2:
All occurs at once1

Individuals and communities exist at-once.
‘Parts’ and ‘wholes’ have validity, reality and purpose
through an at-once interdependence of each other.2

Key Principle No. 2 affirms the interdependence of parts and wholes – a paradoxical independence within dependence.

For example, we may operate or live independently of our family or local community (say, as a hermit in the forest), but we remain dependent on the local ecosystem (an interdependent community of flora, fauna and materials). This key principle (No. 2) will apply in all circumstances, but its expression or outward manifestation will take differing forms.

KPLL No.2 affirms the inability to meaningfully analyse parts independent of their relationship to the whole. However, our sciences and the process of rational thinking have inherent limitations when analysing the at-once nature of wholes and relationships.

Generally speaking, thinking is a serial, sequential process; a process of having one thought after another.3 In other words, our usual thinking process does not furnish us with a full view of life, but merely step-by-step views and experiences, which in turn leads us to take either-or snapshots of life4.

We see evidence of this either-or process in everyday life, such as in politics, religion, science and personal relationships.

Either-or thinking in politics

Political parties reflect an either-or bias in the form of socialist, left-wing or capitalist, right-wing policies and laws. Right-wing views and ideologies are biased towards individualism (parts)5. Left-wing politics is biased towards community (the whole). This either-or thinking usually results in right-wing policies favouring individual rights at the expense of community cohesion and cooperation, while left-wing policies generally favour the community at the expense of individual freedoms and opportunities.6,7

As is more fully explained in our seminars8, left-wing and right-wing biases are not sustainable – favouring one side at the expense of the other ends up being at the expense of both, as required by KPLL 1 and 2.

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